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  <title>omphaloskepsis: the study of one's navel</title>
  <subtitle>One Truth: Matter is energy</subtitle>
  <author>
    <name>Br Garotte of Moderation</name>
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    <title>Posts</title>
    <published>2009-07-18T01:24:14Z</published>
    <updated>2009-07-18T01:24:55Z</updated>
    <content type="html">FYI:  Most of my livejournal posts are friends only.  If you're interested in my journal feel free to leave a comment &amp; be-friend me &amp; you'll be added in return.</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:456514</id>
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    <title>Even the pussy thinks so...</title>
    <published>2009-07-17T15:36:33Z</published>
    <updated>2009-07-17T17:18:08Z</updated>
    <category term="humor"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;a href="http://icanhascheezburger.com/2009/07/17/funny-pictures-i-read-your-journal/"&gt;&lt;img class="mine_4510164" title="funny-pictures-kitten-read-your-journal" src="http://icanhascheezburger.wordpress.com/files/2009/06/funny-pictures-kitten-read-your-journal.jpg" alt="funny pictures of cats with captions" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;see more &lt;a href="http://icanhascheezburger.com"&gt;Lolcats and funny pictures&lt;/a&gt;</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:455655</id>
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    <title>Writer's Block: Firsts</title>
    <published>2009-07-06T15:54:38Z</published>
    <updated>2009-07-06T15:56:47Z</updated>
    <category term="writer&amp;apos;s block"/>
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&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div style='border: 1px solid #000; padding: 6px;'&gt;&lt;p&gt;What was the subject title of your first-ever LJ entry?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style='font-size: 0.8em;'&gt;Submitted By &lt;span class='ljuser  ljuser-name_paperxflowerz' lj:user='paperxflowerz' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://paperxflowerz.livejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://paperxflowerz.livejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;paperxflowerz&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;input type="button" value="Answer" onclick="document.location.href='http://www.livejournal.com/update.bml?qotd=965'" /&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.livejournal.com/misc/latestqotd.bml?qid=965"&gt;View other answers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;!-- end .appwidget-qotd --&gt;
&lt;a href="http://ferndalealex.livejournal.com/2004/06/01/"&gt;Stardate 0406.01 - New to this one&lt;/a&gt; The week after GM's 2004 Contract Employee Purging.</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:455272</id>
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    <title>Thoughts on a Sunday</title>
    <published>2009-07-06T04:00:29Z</published>
    <updated>2009-07-06T04:01:05Z</updated>
    <category term="writing"/>
    <content type="html">We cannot start over,&lt;br /&gt;But we can start in a new direction.&lt;br /&gt;The journey continues onward,&lt;br /&gt;No hope of returns or re-do’s.&lt;br /&gt;The unalterable past led to &lt;br /&gt;This crossroad, these choices&lt;br /&gt;Of direction that lay ahead of us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the future!  The future &lt;br /&gt;Is filled with the bright despair&lt;br /&gt;That burns the soul to the core.&lt;br /&gt;Leaving the proverbial cinder&lt;br /&gt;Where a vibrant soul used to be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The future also hold the &lt;br /&gt;Balm of cool soothing hope&lt;br /&gt;That covers the burn scars&lt;br /&gt;And lets the healing begin.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The road goes ever on&lt;br /&gt;Where we choose to go.&lt;br /&gt;So we can’t start over,&lt;br /&gt;We can start in a new direction.</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:455031</id>
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    <title>Detroit is "Hung"</title>
    <published>2009-06-30T11:18:30Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-30T11:20:48Z</updated>
    <category term="detroit"/>
    <content type="html">There was a commercial for the HBO series "HUNG" the other day.  Prostitution is a step up from the official corruption problems we've been having for the last few years, I guess.  Is it a good thing that LA can stand in for Detroit?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;HBO series 'Hung' gives Detroit a starring role by Jessica Nunez | MLive.com | Monday June 29, 2009, 8:49 AM&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"The pilot was shot entirely in Detroit, Birmingham, Livonia, Clarkston and West Bloomfield Township, as was part of the rest of the season (the rest was filmed in L.A.).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The opening sequence is jam-packed with familiar Motor City signposts, from the first shot of a barge gliding over the Detroit River, to Thomas Jane as Ray Drecker walking through Hart Plaza, below the People Mover and in front of the Joe Louis fist, Lafayette Coney Island and the abandoned Packard plant."&lt;/i&gt;</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:454895</id>
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    <title>School</title>
    <published>2009-06-29T20:17:15Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-30T11:24:46Z</updated>
    <category term="edumacation"/>
    <content type="html">If the grant is approved it looks like my fall semester will consist of Composition 2 (Comp 1 was passed in 1985); Personal Computer Productivity Tools; Business Law 1; and Physical Well-Being in a Modern Society.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;12 credit hours...minimum 24 out of class study hours.  This could also be the lightest course load I have for the next year and a half (the classes get heavier after this...)</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:454186</id>
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    <title>Help!!!</title>
    <published>2009-06-28T19:03:34Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-28T19:04:30Z</updated>
    <category term="humor"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;a href="http://www.heyquiz.com/quiz/cat_kill"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.heyquiz.com/bimage/14_74.jpg" alt="Is your cat plotting to kill you?" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:453690</id>
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    <title>Struggling MI BGLT Bookstore </title>
    <published>2009-06-28T11:20:37Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-28T11:22:00Z</updated>
    <category term="local"/>
    <category term="news"/>
    <content type="html">In Ann Arbor, MI, home of the University of Michigan, the only BGLT Bookstore in SE Michigan needs help. Please consider placing your next order with one of our independent bookstores.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;a href="http://glbtbooks.com/index.htm"&gt;Common Language [Bookstore]&lt;/a&gt; Needs Your Support: There is no easy way to say this. Common Language is not making enough sales to support itself. Its very existence is in peril."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks!</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:453274</id>
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    <title>Doctor Who mini-episode "Time Crash"</title>
    <published>2009-06-23T11:24:47Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-23T11:50:42Z</updated>
    <content type="html">Doctor #5 meets Doctor #10.  The multi-Doctor stories are always fun.  This is a "remix" of the Time Crash story "from the 5th Doctor's perspective."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#10:  "...look at me: I'm the Doctor.  I can save the universe using a kettle and some string.  And look at me, I'm wearing a vegtable."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;lj-embed id="5" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Part 2: &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfXPqYBvEeE"&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfXPqYBvEeE&lt;/a&gt;</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:452472</id>
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    <title>It's All One Thing</title>
    <published>2009-06-18T12:08:18Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-18T15:09:51Z</updated>
    <category term="tv"/>
    <content type="html">NBC, USA, MSNBC, CNBC, SciFi, Bravo, and USA are all broadcasting a golf tournament!!  (Which is also on the Golf Channel...).  What's a couch potato to do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;10.30 am update: Regular programming has resumed.  What the heck happened?&lt;/i&gt;</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:451837</id>
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    <title>Adventures in job hunting</title>
    <published>2009-06-15T12:27:37Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-15T13:47:20Z</updated>
    <category term="2009"/>
    <category term="job hunt"/>
    <content type="html">Am posting this anywhere for anyone who needs it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://shar.es/pUco"&gt;Find a job at our Detroit Career Fair on July 10, 2009&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posted using &lt;a href="http://sharethis.com"&gt;ShareThis&lt;/a&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From &lt;a href="http://jeknetwork.typepad.com/networking/2009/06/networking-with-humor-.html"&gt;John Kobara: Networking with humor&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ways to help yourself see the lighter side of life: (from Helpguide.com)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * Laugh at yourself. Share your embarrassing moments. The best way to take ourselves less seriously is talk about times when we took ourselves too seriously.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * Attempt to laugh at situations rather than bemoan them. Look for the humor in a bad situation, the irony and absurdity of life. This will help improve your mood and the mood of those around you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * Surround yourself with reminders to lighten up. Keep a toy on your desk or in your car. Put up a funny poster in your office. Choose a computer screen-saver that makes you laugh. Frame photos of you and your family or friends having fun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * Keep things in perspective. Many things in life are beyond our control—particularly the behavior of other people. While you might think taking the weight of the world on your shoulders is admirable, in the long run it’s unrealistic, unproductive, unhealthy, and even egotistical.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * Deal with your stress. Stress is a major impediment to humor and laughter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    * Pay attention to children and emulate them. They are the experts on playing, taking life lightly, and laughing.</content>
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    <title>Movie: Madam Palmfry @ The Clairmont</title>
    <published>2009-06-14T13:19:35Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-14T13:20:08Z</updated>
    <category term="movies"/>
    <content type="html">Last week we saw &lt;a href="”http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0421229”"&gt;Mrs. Palmfry At the Claremont&lt;/a&gt; starring Joan Plowright as a woman who’s moved to London to be closer to her grandson.  Said grandson doesn’t show up to visit but she remains at the hotel.  After taking a tumble on the street she meets a charming young man, twenty-something, who quickly becomes a good friend and a stand in grandson.  They learn from each other.  When Joan needs someone most, he &amp; his girlfriend are there.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This isn’t just another movie about the old learning to reconnect with life or the young learning to appreciate the adventure.  This is about who family really is.  Is it our blood relatives whom we are given or the chosen family we gather along the way?  I would recommend this one to almost anybody as a bit of a melancholy feel good movie.</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:448879</id>
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    <title>Things to do??</title>
    <published>2009-06-06T19:28:09Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-07T02:54:01Z</updated>
    <content type="html">&lt;img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v521/Growlbear/2009FerndalePrideBanner.jpg" width="425" height="500"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unless the predicted rain comes through.</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:447070</id>
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    <title>Writer's Block: Call Me</title>
    <published>2009-06-02T17:01:52Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-02T17:02:16Z</updated>
    <category term="writer&amp;apos;s block"/>
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The landline is part of the cable / internet service.  Cell phones are too expensive for the two people who call me (one of them I live with).</content>
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    <title>QOTD</title>
    <published>2009-05-29T18:53:04Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-29T18:55:27Z</updated>
    <category term="wisdom lines"/>
    <content type="html">“Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are.” ~ Chinese Proverb  (&lt;a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/old-man-socks-the-wisdom-of-%E2%80%98becoming-nobody%E2%80%99/"&gt;Pick The Brain&lt;/a&gt; blog)</content>
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    <title>Wow!</title>
    <published>2009-05-24T12:26:14Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-24T16:40:10Z</updated>
    <content type="html">Listening to a story about the rising rates of kidney stones in young children.</content>
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    <title>Writer's Block: There Can Be Only One</title>
    <published>2009-05-23T12:51:15Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-23T12:51:26Z</updated>
    <category term="monogamy"/>
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&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div style='border: 1px solid #000; padding: 6px;'&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do you believe in monogamy? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style='font-size: 0.8em;'&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;input type="button" value="Answer" onclick="document.location.href='http://www.livejournal.com/update.bml?qotd=910'" /&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.livejournal.com/misc/latestqotd.bml?qid=910"&gt;View other answers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;!-- end .appwidget-qotd --&gt;
I do believe!  However, monogamy requires two people to be committed to the same thing and I see it break down when there is an irreconcilable difference in lifestyles.</content>
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    <title>GOP struggles</title>
    <published>2009-05-20T20:20:31Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-20T20:21:45Z</updated>
    <content type="html">The headline has it wrong, according to the article the Republican's want to start referring to Democrats as "Nationalist Socialist Democrat" party...which isn't a socialist party at all.  It's interesting because the recently concluded administration had more in common with the &lt;i&gt;Nationalist Socialist Democrat party&lt;/i&gt; than the current crop.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm glad there's nothing more critical to focus on...it'll help keep them irrelavent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5hACw5uRduZcu-7FamXIIKo55YlwgD98A2B200"&gt;GOP struggles with push to rename Dems 'Socialist'&lt;/a&gt; / By BEN EVANS &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;WASHINGTON (AP) — Republican Party leaders are trying to avoid a public confrontation over a GOP-led effort to rename the Democratic Party the "Nationalist Socialist Democrat" party.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Republican National Committee is slated to vote on several resolutions Wednesday. Leaders already have softened one that would have pointedly criticized Republicans who supported recent billion-dollar bailouts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Party Chairman Michael Steele and others say the party should also drop the renaming resolution and focus on more serious problems. To avoid a party dispute over the renaming, they were trying to compromise on milder language that would simply criticize Democrats for what they call socialist tendencies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The fight reflects a divide between Republicans who want a more centrist message and party hardliners.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Copyright © 2009 The Associated Press. All rights reserved.&lt;/i&gt;</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:442165</id>
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    <title>Raising Katie</title>
    <published>2009-05-15T17:47:41Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-15T17:47:59Z</updated>
    <category term="news"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;a href="http://www.newsweek.com/id/194886"&gt;(ADOPTION) &lt;/a&gt;: What adopting a white girl taught a black family about race in the Obama era.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;So-called transracial adoptions have surged since 1994, when the Multiethnic Placement Act reversed decades of outright racial matching by banning discrimination against adoptive families on the basis of race. But the growth has been all one-sided.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An interesting article.  Many of the things about a balck family adopting a white girl were easily forseen, but the story raises some interesting points.  Katies legal guardian, for instance, "&lt;i&gt;joined her colleagues in condemning the adoption of black children by white families as "cultural genocide"—a position she still holds in theory, if not in practice.&lt;/i&gt;"</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:441861</id>
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    <title>QOTD</title>
    <published>2009-05-15T14:14:25Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-15T15:10:23Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">"The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place, but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment." – Lady Dorothy Nevill&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Lady Dorothy Nevill, the noted British gardener, was one of the most celebrated society hostesses of her day; her salons attracted leading writers, artists, and statesmen. She was born Dorothy Walpole in 1826 in England. She married a wealthy cousin with a 23-acre estate, where she pursued her interest in plants. She built 13 greenhouses and carried on an extensive correspondence with Charles Darwin. Her memoir, &lt;u&gt;Leaves From the Note-Books of Lady Dorothy Nevill&lt;/u&gt;, was published in 1906. She died in 1913.&lt;/i&gt;</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:ferndalealex:440936</id>
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    <title>Feeding the pet peeve...</title>
    <published>2009-05-10T12:17:44Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-10T17:35:55Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">Good greif!!  The news is all about the record gross earnings of the new Star Trek movie.  Gee, could it be because ticket prices are at an all time high?  Why do these folks think that gross earnings is a reliable measure for anything?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to a report a few years ago the most viewed movie of all time (Gone With The Wind) ISN'T THE TOP GROSSING.  The 10 top grossing movies weren't even in the top 50 most viewed (measure by number of tickets sold over time) though they were in the top 100.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Give some news that's worthy of the bandwidth!!</content>
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    <title>Movie: A Very Natural Thing (1973)</title>
    <published>2009-05-10T00:29:52Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-10T17:36:28Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">We watched &lt;a href="http://www.netflix.com/Movie/Very_Natural_Thing/1089993?lnkce=seRtLn&amp;amp;trkid=222336&amp;amp;lnkctr=srchrd-sr&amp;amp;strkid=1367036283_0_0"&gt;A Very Natural Thing&lt;/a&gt; this week.  In footage from the 1973 Pride Parade in NYC people talked about the need for people to be free to be themselves.  The more things change the more they stay the same.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I really got the feeling that this was showing two sides of the gay community: Promiscuous (liberated) vs. Traditional (repressed).  Mark was the gay man who was sexually liberated and stated that he wasn’t interested in romance or deeper relationships.  David, former monk, brought the values of hearth and home with him to this relationship.  Unfortunately, being liberated and being committed aren’t compatible world views, so things get rough and break apart, wounding David in a deep way.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When a new beau later asks him to move in, David says no.  He likes what they have and even loves him but isn’t ready to take that step right now.  My hubby was saying the beau should dump David but I was thinking that this isn’t a relationship to throw away yet.  He grew in the first relationship and I think when he feels more secure he will rethink his position.  Hubby felt David picked up the aversion to commitment that many gay men seemed to have in the 70’s.  (Maybe it was just generalized as the sexual revolution ran its course?)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a much better movie than its cotemporary &lt;a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0065488/"&gt;The Boys In The Band&lt;/a&gt;, much less self-loathing and more positive in scope.</content>
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    <title>Top 10 Lines Never Before Said In A "Star Trek" Film</title>
    <published>2009-05-08T15:03:03Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-08T15:28:21Z</updated>
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    <category term="humor"/>
    <category term="sci fi"/>
    <content type="html">From last night's David Letterman!  Leonard Nimoy stopped by to deliver the lines.  The blod one's made me LOL&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10: Warp factor 8! Arby's closes in ten minutes 	&lt;br /&gt;9: We're entering a breach in the space-time continuum or a wormhole or some crazy crap like that 	&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;8: Set phasers to fabulous!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7: Welcome aboard the Starship Enterprise -- today's in-flight movie is "Big Momma's House 2" 	&lt;br /&gt;6: We've been hijacked by Somali Pirates 	&lt;br /&gt;5: Sir, I'm going to need Saturday off to attend my nephew's Bar Mitzvah 	&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;4: My baby-daddy is a Vulcan -- on the next "Maury"&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3: The Enterprise just hit a goose -- we're gonna have to land in the Hudson 	&lt;br /&gt;2: Live long, prosper, and keep on hangin' and bangin' 	&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;1: I find your choice of a hairpiece highly illogical&lt;/b&gt;</content>
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    <title>A prayer for the rest of us...</title>
    <published>2009-05-03T16:00:08Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-03T17:17:13Z</updated>
    <category term="humor"/>
    <content type="html">Dear God,&lt;br /&gt;So far today, I've done all right.&lt;br /&gt;I haven't gossiped.&lt;br /&gt;I haven't lost my temper.&lt;br /&gt;I haven't been greedy, grumpy&lt;br /&gt;nasty, selfish, or overindulgent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm very thankful for that.&lt;br /&gt;But in a few minutes, God,&lt;br /&gt;I'm going to get out of bed;&lt;br /&gt;and from then on, I'm probably&lt;br /&gt;going to need a lot more help!&lt;br /&gt;Amen.</content>
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    <title>Family Search</title>
    <published>2009-05-02T21:40:09Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-03T12:52:39Z</updated>
    <category term="genealogy"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;i&gt;Detroit Free Press (4-June-1979) &lt;b&gt;Max M. Horton&lt;/b&gt; age 70 of Roscommon, formerly of Bloomfield Hills.  Husband of Della; father of William of Rochester; Annette of Royal Oak; two grandchildren; Brother of Rita Magoon of Detroit.  Mr. Horton was retired after 14 years as State Director of the M.E.S.C.  In 1972 Mr. Horton was selected by Gov. William Milliken as outstanding Michigan State Employee of the Year.  Funeral Services will be held Tuesday, June 5 at 1:30 pm at St. Elizabeth Episcopal Church in Roscommon.  Burial in the Garrish Township Cemetary.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I found this obit for my grandfather today but I have to admit that I was hoping for a bit more...we don't know what his parents names were and have long lost contact with the survivors.  (Honestly...I didn't know he had a sister &amp; thought he had 2 sons.)</content>
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